Find Your Bliss

In a world full of craziness, you have to find your bliss. We go through all sorts of things in life growing up. We sometimes make the same bad decisions over and over again. I sometimes wonder if I'm even learning after awhile but you can't give up on striving to be a better person. I think change is a big step towards maturing and finding who you are. We need to step out of our comfort zone. Have you ever felt like your prayers just hit the ceiling every time you pray, I feel like that all time time, it can really kill your faith but we have to focus that it just wasn't Gods plan for our life, or he just simply doesn't think we are ready for it to happen. Remember, we are only human, we are not perfect. You should always pray when making decisions, never say you are for sure doing something unless you know for sure. You have to do what's best for you, not everyone else. Although, we would all like to please the people we love, it still has to be what's right for you. When people walk out of your life, let them go because some people are only in your life for a season. We are all beautiful in our own way, nobody in this world is ugly. I try to be there for everyone but I realized that, that's not always possible. Don't let others try to change you, be yourself, if they can't accept that, then their not worth being a part of your life. You have to change because you want to change. These are my words that I try to follow to find my happiness. Although I struggle, I try to let God lead me.

Many attempts to communicate are nullified by saying to much by Robert Greenleaf

I'm starting to learn this more and more. Many conversations are messed up by not thinking before we speak or by simply saying too much. I am the type of person where I say too much and then regret it. If people would think before they speak, some conversations would not end up being so bad. The reason I chose to write about this is because it’s becoming a constant thing on my mind lately. Fights, arguments, etc. are usually caused by saying too much, sometimes it’s better to say nothing at all and just listen. Here are a few good quotes I found:

"Many a man would rather you heard his story than granted his request.— Phillip Stanhope Earl of Chesterfield,

 "The most basic of all human needs is the need to understand and be understood. The best way to understand people is to listen to them."— Ralph Nichols

"Effective listeners remember that "words have no meaning - people have meaning." The assignment of meaning to a term is an internal process; meaning comes from inside us. And although our experiences, knowledge and attitudes differ, we often misinterpret each other’s messages while under the illusion that a common understanding has been achieved."— Larry Barker

Hello Everyone! =0)

        This is my new blog, you may follow it or do what you like, anybody is welcome, for those who don't know me my name is Frances, I am in my second year of college and just trying new things. I like to travel and explore new places and if your interested in that I can help you be able to do that for a living, I am a friendly person. Things I like, church, rain, Autumn, winter, baking, writing, karaoke, country music, contemporary christian music, having fun, traveling, snow, trench coats, boots, scarfs, and meeting new people. :)